Pi3 with 19.1 stuttering then freezing after few minutes of video playback

Have you tested your network with iperf3?

eth0: flags=-28605<UP,BROADCAST,RUNNING,MULTICAST,DYNAMIC>  mtu 1500
        inet 192.168.178.40  netmask 255.255.255.0  broadcast 192.168.178.255
        ether b8:27:eb:a7:91:6a  txqueuelen 1000  (Ethernet)
        RX packets 2119812  bytes 2646893041 (2.4 GiB)
        RX errors 6  dropped 10781  overruns 0  frame 6
        TX packets 1021092  bytes 109844370 (104.7 MiB)
        TX errors 0  dropped 0 overruns 0  carrier 0  collisions 0

Maybe something changed in the network, we suggest to check your network with iperf3. Please read this howto