System really slow

As a first test I suggest to check network with iperf3 between the two Vero’s and between each Vero and your Notebook.

Secondly your logs are full of openvpn warnings
2021-06-03 10:37:45.202 T:3769610464 NOTICE: Wed Jun 2 14:37:05 2021 AEAD Decrypt error: bad packet ID (may be a replay): [ #11 ] -- see the man page entry for --no-replay and --replay-window for more info or silence this warning with --mute-replay-warnings
So I would suggest to do tests without openvpn active.